Neutral trim at rest on the trailer when you mark your gauge is when the propshaft is level with the pad. That is NOT neutral trim when running down the lake because the boat makes a 5-7 deg angle with the surface of the water. Therefore to have the propshaft pointed parallel with the direction of travel, you will have to be trimmed up 5-7 more degrees.
On my boat, I marked the trim gauge at neutral on the trailer, and that was about 6 on the trim gauge. If I ran it there, the boat ran dirty with too much hull in the water, it felt like it was plowing, and I could only get it up to about 80 mph. The trim where it liked to run was at 8.25 on the gauge, and that made the hull fly and was good for 20 more mph.
I dont think you are trimming near enough.
What I did to get over the fear of bat turning is run about 60 mph, and keep bumping the trim up until the back end feels like you are driving on ice. It feels like it is skating around back there, like it wont take a set. That is your never exceed value, and for my boat, it was well over 9 on the gauge. That way, if you go to far, you bat turn at 60, which is like making a hard turn on a jet ski, so no big deal.
Bottom line is you are going to have to trim it up more to clean the hull up, if you are only trimming to neutral as marked on a gauge while sitting on a trailer and leveled.